A native Californian transplanted in southern Illinois.A few days after we broke up, BF sent me a long email taking responsibility for his inaction and told me that he has been struggling with depression. Looking back, I realized that he had tried to tell me about the depression before but that I didn't "get" what he was saying. He doesn't seem depressed at all when we are together, but looking at it in that light, I can see that many of his actions (or inactions) fit with depression symptoms.
His life is a big mess right now, and much of it is his own making.
We are going to work things out, but on the condition that he seek professional help for his depression and stop procrastinating in....settling his mother's estate. His mother died 5 years ago, he is the executor, and this is still not done.
He is finally taking steps with both of those things.
Wish me luck!
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